This question was closed for being too broad: How to be accountable for your actions but not responsible for others' needs? I tried to constrain it to be about a very specific dilemma concerning interpersonal skills. The one comment explaining its broadness didn't provide any explanation of that judgment besides contrasting it with "actual, specific problems that people have."
This implies that the close-voters believe that all questions here should be at the level of "My husband and I are having an argument," not "how do I use this skill?"
Do we want to allow questions about interpersonal skills that aren't in the context of an active interpersonal conflict?
For other examples, see What impact does "mirroring" have on other people? and How can I learn to be a good active listener?