Sure. Ask away.
A condition for asking a question here is to make sure it's based on real life situations, and not imaginary "what if" scenarios.
The things that actually happened in the past to you or someone you know, if it relates to the IPS topics, then you can ask here.
Although you may not be able to go back in time and change your decisions, your questions and the relevant answers it gets will surely help others in the future.
It would help us if you add in the question some details such as what are the things you have tried and what results you found. It helps us learn from your experience as well.
It would also help you find some sort of closure if you will. Knowing what choices would've been the best for a situation can help prepare for a similar situation in the future regardless of it being in a different setting.