This question has been closed as unclear what you're asking.
The reason seems rather weird to me, because OP has explained a problem, a goal to achieve, and asked a question related to IPS. It's nicely and clearly worded.
Of course, OP can only provide us with his side of the story, because he doesn't know why this girl behaves the way she does or even what she thinks. So there can be only details from OP's POV. Nevertheless, this short background and question seem to fit into an overall acceptable topic suited for IPS.
Even though people who answered chose to challenge OP, it was their choice not to directly answer the premise of the question. But it seems clear enough to be answered by whoever chooses to go straight to the point, reading the title/question.
- What are the really important pieces of information missing that led to close?
- Can this question be reopened?