Regardless of the background issue, the situations described are about dealing with different people, one is private and the other is a group, one prioritizes an affective relationship and the other one a public relationship. Both questions have different objectives in the situations I'm trying to deal with.
Question 14708: How to politely encourage my girlfriend to support the value of men when with friends who say men aren't necessary?
Question 14092: How to politely tell a group of feminists some of their arguments are misandristic and are affecting my community?
Edit: I just read this great answer and I'm feeling a tad envious but also still hopeful, I know someone around here could offer great advice if my questions were not being still rejected. I already complied with your requirements. This doesn't feel right.