Perhaps we're misusing the tag entirely. Neither of the existing questions using it are about feminism, they're both about interacting with people who the question askers consider to be "feminists", either by the OP's definition or because the subject of the question has claimed to be a feminist. Regardless, that's really not the same thing. I'm not even sure questions about feminism would be on topic here.
As with the existing questions, the people involved in the questions are labeled (by the OP) as "feminists" but, by the same argument, I don't really think the question is about feminism and, so, tagging it feminism seems wrong to me.
We do have tags for the type of relationship you have with a person, such as friends, or things that define the interaction somehow, such as racial-issues.
I'd recommend that we use something like gender-issues, which doesn't actually exist currently, but it would more broadly encapsulate these questions about gender discussions. This may even be better for use here than our current gender tag.
That said, the questions are definitely not about humanism, so I've removed that tag from both and replaced it with tags I felt were more appropriate, though unrelated to the gender-specificity of the question.