Question My wife and I just had a big blow-up was put on hold because it was considered unclear. I have been through a similar situation and had posted an answer. There's a comment from sphennings that since the question isn't clear, it's impossible to judge if my answer is useful. I assume that's why my answer was deleted.
I'm curious as to why the other answer to the question wasn't deleted. Seems like the same logic would apply?
As a side note, I've been through the experience that the OP had, and I do believe I understand his question, and that my answer applied.