I just ran into this answer that was deleted. Maybe there is some legalistic hair-splitting reason why it was deleted. But my lord, it's the right answer. He asked her out on a date (see Seinfeld). She said no. Not maybe, not I'm busy, not "it's too far", just plain no. What more needs to be said? You could maybe disagree with this answer, but delete it???
From the comment of the answer:
please see here what we require of frame challenges like this. This post misses a justification of why the frame of the question is a bad idea. Why shouldn't the OP tell the girl? What would be the consequences of doing so?
So, if you think this answer is "the right answer", you should definitely make the same with the justifications that this answer miss (unless another, not deleted, answer already do that).
Answers on this site that does not "back it up" tend to be deleted which explain why this one has been.