This question was inspired from a conversation in IPS' main chat.
Regarding the following question:
How to ask ex-girlfriend to seek professional help
It was pointed out that most answers challenge the OP's author intent to convince their ex to seek professional help, saying that it's not to the OP's author to tell their ex such a thing. A regular user then asked for help to edit the question to try to make it less likely to be answered with frame challenging contributions.
We've discussed a lot what is a good frame-challenge on meta, so I'm wondering why we should edit the question if it's for refraining users to challenge it 1. So, when a question will most likely bring challenging answers, should we try to edit it in order to discourage answerers to challenge it?
1: I'm not saying that all frame challenges of this question are (currently) valid ones.
Edit
Regarding AElis' comment:
Note that my issue is more about the fact that the answers are bad frame challenges
If possible, it'd be great if the answers to this meta post discuss both situations: should we edit a question when it leads to frame-challenging answers, whether they're valid or not.