It was not rude or abusive, and about how men need unambiguous signals from women.
Your comment was not about asking for clarification or suggesting improvements. It was just a reply to another commentator. We have a strict policy on using comments only for asking for clarifications and/or suggesting improvements.
As per the Comment Privilege section,
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Your comment wasn't any of above, so that's why it was deleted. And you don't have to worry about it being rude or abusive. It wasn't deleted for this reason.