**"What should I do?" question** > Unfortunately, this question appears to be asking “What should I do?”, which the community has \[determined\]\(https://interpersonal.meta.stackexchange.com/q/1310/31\) to not be a good fit for Interpersonal Skills Stack Exchange. We can’t decide for you what to do; after you determine what you want to do, we can help you with your goal, but we can’t make these decisions for you. Sorry. Credit: [Arwen Undómiel](https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/users/31/arwen-und%C3%B3miel?tab=profile) ---------- > Hi and welcome to IPS! Unfortunately, we can't tell you what to do here. Once you've decided what your goal is and identified an interpersonal skill you need help with, you could edit your question to get advice on achieving that goal. In addition to the links in the off-topic text, you might also find \[How do I write a good question?]\(https://interpersonal.meta.stackexchange.com/q/3224/) helpful to understand our guidelines here. Credit: [Em C][1] [1]: https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/users/3171/em-c