Unfortunately, as much as I enjoy the Interpersonal site, the rules applied to it seem to be based heavily on the rules from the related tech forums. Answers to tech questions may well be binary, but interpersonal matters are not.

**Questions** seem to be routinely rejected for not being specific enough, which seems fair enough, but not every human dilemma can be phrased in the form of a question. Someone who is generally troubled by a friend's behaviour and doesn't know how to handle it (a perfectly reasonable 'interpersonal problem' to me) is forced to re-write their question to include a specific request which invariably ends up as something like *'What do I say to my friend...?'*

The above rule also means that once a question is accepted, any **answers** are criticised for not directly answering the question. Ultimately, if you want your answer to be accepted you have to give some suggested wording.

It's not a perfect system but I suppose that is why it is a beta.