I'm not sure if I have the best title here, but I recently thought of a pair of questions, and I'm not sure how to pose them:
- how to make a good first impression?
- how to deal with someone who made a good first impression, but they quickly changed?
I think these two are very interrelated because they focus on each side of making a good first impression, and also because many of the ways you make a good first impression can be abused. So the first question is shaded by the second (e.g. someone did X to make a good first impression but betrayed me, and now I'm leery of doing X even though it seems like a good idea).
So, should these questions be allowed, and if so, should they be linked together? Should they be asked at once, or should there be a wait between them? And would we use tags to notify that they reciprocate?